No Best Friends

Moving to the United States cut ties with  my high-school friends as our lives have diverged too far apart. Fortunately, there are some of my college and grad school friends with whom I have stayed in touch. Our time together as youngsters remains sweet to remember.

Throughout my various professional experiences, I have had the pleasure of meeting remarkable colleagues who have evolved into cherished friendships. Together, we have witnessed each other’s growth, potential, and dreams. Our catch-up sessions are checkpoints that allow us to reflect on our progress, navigate disappointments, and celebrate life’s joy. 

Lately, I have broadened my social circles through new engagements. I have discovered some wonderful individuals with whom I share a genuine connection and the potential for meaningful friendships. Of course, there are also existing long standing friendships that have weathered the tests of time, as well as those that have naturally faded away or ended intentionally. 

While I once embraced the notion of best friends, my perspective has shifted with time. Every friendship can be unique and valuable, so I no longer feel the need to label one as "the best." We are constantly evolving, and sometimes friendships must reach their natural conclusion when they no longer fulfill us. I am not referring to ending friendships on bad terms, but rather recognizing when it is time to let go gracefully. I have also come to understand that some friendships intentionally fade to make room for new connections. My outlook on friendship has evolved to prioritize quality over quantity. After all, it is the depth of a friendship that ultimately matters most. That was a realization I hadn't fully embraced a decade ago. 

WORDS: Thinzar Kyaw
PHOTO: Thinzar Kyaw
LOCATION: Soho, NYC